31 for 21: 14 years

One of the girls in my office is engaged, and at one of those insufferable office showers someone else, 7 years in, started waxing poetic about what it took to keep a relationship going - communication, listening, how not to fight... blah, blah, blah. 

Nobody asked me, though I realized later with a mix of horror (are we that old?) and pride that I'd been married longer than anyone else in the room, but MY tip would have been to simply resist the occasional homicidal urges.  If you are very lucky, the rest will sort itself out. 

Here's to 14 years of laughter, tears, & only occasional body dump scouting!

I couldn't find a recent picture of us together so here's a look at what we did together.  *smirk*